Tis' the season for engagements! Could your sweetheart be the next one popping the question? Before he gets down on one knee, take a look at our suggested dos and don'ts before he asks.
DO
Get a manicure. If your nails aren’t Instagram ready, treat yourself! Apart from social media, you’ll have family and friends grabbing your hand asking to see your new bling. Go with a neutral color as not to take away from the main attraction. A light pink or nude is always complimentary.
Pack the essentials. While we hope he will propose on a good hair and makeup day, keep your go-to products close. Keeping things like lipstick, a compact and mascara will make you feel better about taking pictures if he proposes unexpectedly.
Trust him. In case he’s dreaming up a plan, follow his lead—even if it seems out of the ordinary. If he asks you to go to an over-the-top restaurant you two swore you’d never waste your money on, go with it. Chances are he has invested time and energy to make things just right.
Ease his nerves. We all know that feeling before giving a public speech or presenting a new idea to your boss. He may have those feelings in the weeks leading up to the proposal. So if he seems a little on-edge, try to take it easy on him. Do your best to reassure him whenever the opportunity arises.
DON’T
Be absent. A proposal is a milestone most dream about. Before you get caught up in daydreaming; try to focus on staying in the moment. After years of marriage, the day of your proposal may become a little foggy. Focus on the conversations you share with your significant other. Be aware of the sounds, smells and sights to help keep you grounded. Take a break from social media to just enjoy where you are.
Set unrealistic expectations. Just because you’ve posted Harry Winston’s emerald cut diamond all over your Pinterest board doesn’t mean it fits in your sweetie’s budget. Likewise, the viral video you watched of the guy proposing in an organized flash mob may not happen either. We’re not telling you to lower your expectations, just be real about them!
Tell others. Secrets aren’t easy to keep, especially this one! Before you gab to the girls, try to keep this to yourself. There are so few surprises in life and your significant other worked hard to try to keep this one.
Ask. It seems obvious not to ask if he’s proposing but don’t ask about other details either! By asking if he’s proposing by a certain date or time, will make him feel anxious. If he’s taking you on a date and it seems like he’s withholding details—there may be a reason. Don’t pry for information, especially if he’s doing all he can to keep it a surprise.
